Friday, July 30, 2010

Day 30 : Time flies fast

It has been thirty straight days, I’ve been posting my thoughts here in my 1 million in 90 days challenge. Honestly, I’m on my way to greatness though I haven’t earned anything with monetary value yet (aside from my active income).

This post will just contain what happened since then.

First, my mind was opened to a vast learning and earning opportunities. I have read four books in one month. I’ve read one minute millionaire and cash in a flash both from Mark Victor Hansen and Robert G. Allen. I’ve read my first ever marketing books, all marketers are story tellers and meatball sundae by Seth Godin. I learned various internet marketing videos in the internet.

Second, I aligned myself of my career as an internet marketer. I created a Godwhispers page as a start (targeting of 200 fans by August 1 – four days of existence). I even sent Bo Sanchez an email to ask for his permission with this one. He replied and gave it a go signal. So what’s the statistics? Currently it has 96 fans, half way to go and one day left. My goal is to practice viral marketing in facebook. I need your help! 

For the remaining next sixty days, here’s my plan.

I’ll continue in creating viral messages. I’ll be promoting events, I’ll be creating my own website that will contain a lot of how to’s in the internet (I’m thinking of doing this in a tagalong version). The purpose of this one is for Filipinos to become aware that there’s a lot of earning and learning opportunities online. I’ll be using my handy dandy Camtasia.

To be aligned with the things I wanted to do, I’ll be pursuing another career. I will be an internet marketer and I’ll be discussing it to my boss on Monday. Please pray for me to have this job post.

Next 60 days, here I come!

Thursday, July 29, 2010

Day 29 : I never expected...

Today is the first day of our 2 day planning conference here in Taal Vista.

Well, the experience was great. I never thought that I’ll learn more marketing skills in our supply chain planning conference. Actually, I never expect something great will happen, it just came. So this post I will be sharing them all to you.

First, I never expected that I’ll learn a new quote that will help me as an internet marketer. Here’s the equation:

Deliver the results = Gain the Trust = Earn the right to

Actually, this applies to our life. This applies in our work, in our relationships, in our everyday life.

How?

If we manage to deliver the results we gain the trust of our superiors. Gaining their trust will result to us earning our right to provide a strategy to better improve the process.

In my life as an internet marketer, if I manage to continuously provide the things my market (selected niche) wants then I gain their trust, I gain their respect. Once they trusted me, the things I’ll be sharing will be trusted as well thus earning my right to influence their decisions. My voice will now be heard and will be considered.

This agrees to the idea of Social Profit Formula (Don Crowther) that we need to have a ratio of 50 valuable messages to 1 selling message. The 50 messages would make us more or less trustworthy (or should I say an expert) on the selected niche.

Second, I never expected that our company will be gearing towards the new marketing in five years time. With this, I’m excited to apply as a internet marketing of our company. With my passion in blogging and social media, and web 2.0, I know this will be a great learning opportunity for me.

Third, I never expected that I’m still on track for the first popular page I created in facebook. My previous post says that I’m seeing 200 people liking that page on August 1. And I’m very proud to tell you that in just a matter of 2 days, the Godwhispers facebook page already have 69 fans! Woohoo! I never created something like that before. This is the first one. :D

Fourth, I never expected that we will be sending email invites for feast laguna attendees tomorrow. Edel and I are starting to worry about not being able to do our job as media marketing for the Feast Laguna. Lo and behold, when I opened my email, I saw a personalized email from Jon Escoto! Whew! That message save our day!

Lastly, I never expected that God will enable me to share my thoughts to you today. God is really good in providing me everything I need.

Still in awe in God’s amazing power,

eLviN

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Day 28 : Rant!

For the next two days, 29th and 30th day of July, I’ll be out of the office. We will be having our annual planning conference in Taal Vista. So bear with me if you’ll not see any post on this blog for tomorrow. I’ll do my very best to create a journal tomorrow even though the schedule will be tight. Who knows, anything can happen.

With this planning conference, each team and group are required to do some pre-work. We started doing it since last week and thank God it is finished (we’ll just present it tomorrow or on Friday).

Meetings after meetings were held just to finish the powerpoint presentations of each group.  I was assigned to create two powerpoint presentation, one for our group and the other own for my team.  

This does not excite me. Powerpoint presentation forced me to put a lot of texts in one slide. Long meetings mean long unproductive time. I should have finished a lot of my operational tasks. I should have got home early for the past couple of days. I should have written very nice articles for my blog (which is quite overdue). I should have promoted my facebook page enough. Sigh.

Good thing I have a nice stress reliever in the beautiful form of Edel who made my day by being so sweet and kind and understanding.

I appreciate her presence more and more.

By the way, today is our fourth year and 7th month anniversary.

I guess, I need to go to sleep.

See yah!

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Day 27 : Making My Move

Today marks my 27th day of doing the challenge. I admit I’m starting it a bit slow. A lot of the initial plans were not done. I’m constantly changing the path I’m doing on this challenge in search for that one thing that I really, really love doing.

Upon contemplating and reading Seth Godin books and listening to social media, I really want to make my own online business.

And because of that I have made my move. I’ll be following Seth and Don’s (Social Profit) advice. I created a facebook page for one particular product that I loved and really worth sharing. I’m seeing that we will be having 200 people liking this page by August 1 as I continue posting three to five posts per day. A lot of interactions will be happen on this page as we see people being healed and being blessed by the daily dose of Godwhispers.

That’s my first page.

Second, we are now more focused in bringing more people to the Feast Laguna. Again just like the Godwhispers facebook page we will be promoting the Feast Laguna. Here’s our strategy. We are incorporating the various thank you messages received from the love offering envelopes to have daily posts and daily interactions in Feast Laguna facebook page. We will be placing 10 thank you notes (or 10 inspirational messages) every day. So that would be 50 messages per week then promote the event on Thursdays or Fridays. The goal here is to have five to ten new people per week coming from the facebook page and/or the Feast Laguna website.

By the way, we will be doing audience targeting. How? We will promote on those people who follow Bo Sanchez for both Godwhispers and Feast Laguna (with Laguna as geographical location).

After this, we will be starting to feature another page which contains our own product. I downloaded software to aid me on this so this will be very fun thing to do! :D

Ooops. I forgot to take note that I admire Bo Sanchez for replying everytime I emailed him. He really values relationships. I like that. He is truly a blessing.

That’s it. I’ll keep you posted on the 200 people by August 1. The current status? 192 people to go.

This will be the start of me becoming an internet marketer!

Monday, July 26, 2010

Day 26: A Helping Hand

This will be another short blog post because it is already late. I helped my mom create an office layout for their new office. Good thing, I still know how to create office layout using MS Visio.

I also helped Edel in fixing her blog. I removed some advertisements in her blog to focus more on our affiliate programs.

By the way, Edel and I created a history. We felt this certain opportunity to post our link in the official site of the Philippines (www.gov.ph). We noticed that there were no comments posted on the English version of 2010 SONA so we commented. We also created a blog post about 2010 SONA. In any minutes now until the SONA craze will subside we are expecting visitors to our blog (either from the social media or the search engines). We’ll see. In case you’re interested in reading the 2010 SONA, just visit my blog (www.elvinperia.com) or Edel’s blog (www.bit.ly/edelramilo).

By the way, tomorrow will be our second mastermind meeting here region 4.

I’ll continue my thoughts tomorrow.

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Day 25: Interruptions

Today, things not went well according to plan. We were supposed to have our Fourth Starbucks Experience. To give you a background, Starbucks Experience is an event where in Edel and I go out to have a sip of Starbucks coffee to meet and discuss with friends some plans for our future. Plans may include business ideas, wedding plans (ahem), life plans, strategies on how to make our lives remarkable and anything under the sun.

Well, it does not happen due to an interruption.

We accompanied Ren and Bridgette on their first ever Karate Tournament.

It was a great experience seeing Ren and Bridgette perform. I took their video and Edel posted them in Facebook. Here’s the link to Ren’s first ever Kata Tournament.

Interruptions are not that bad after all.

We just learn how to make every moments (interruptions or scheduled) remarkable.

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Day 24 - Law of Attraction at work again!

I just finished reading All Marketers Are Liars by Seth Godin. I started a new book and so far I’m enjoying it. It is about the old and new ways of marketing. The new way focuses on internet marketing, the path I’m going to take.

Just like what I have said in yesterday’s post, I’ll read and look for more materials like this to start my job as an internet marketer. By the way, I thank Tito Tony for sharing me these awesome books! I want more.
Thanks to law of attraction, the universe gave me what I want. I got a priceless material that would help me understand social media and how we can harness its full potential for profits.

In case you want them, you may check out this link (this link contains three videos this is the first one. Social Media Doesn’t Work unless you do it right. Just put there your email address and you can see the videos. I’ll tell you they’re priceless.

By the way, the third video is my favorite. It shows us the social media map.

That’s about it for this post. I want to have more time reading Meatball Sundae by Seth Godin.

Back to reading,

Friday, July 23, 2010

Day 23: Our Online Business

For the past couple of days, we’ve been reading a lot of books. As far as I can remember I read almost three books in three weeks time. It’s a bit slow you might say but I like to note that I’m still have my Monday to Friday work, my blog posts daily, my daily conversations with my family, my weekend activities and preparations to my first ever Internet Marketing Workshop event. Starting on Sunday, I’ll be reading my fourth book for the 90 day challenge. It is about internet marketing, a book form Seth Godin entitled Meatball Sundae. From the stories I’m hearing from Edel, I know it’ll definitely help us a lot.

I developed a technique to fast read a book. How? When buying, always buy two books at a time with the same thickness or size. Since you have two books, decide which book you’re going to read then have a bookworm buddy (preferably your partner in life or someone you can trust and has the same reading speed as you) who will borrow the other book that you have bought. By the way, the books must also be on the same genre so that story telling (exchange of ideas) will complement each other.

This happened today. It feels like, I’m reading meatball sundae when in fact I’m reading All Marketers are liars. Well these two books are great match for what I want to pursue. Thanks to Tito Tony.

Speaking on what we will be pursuing, we will be devoting our time, energy and resources to find enough materials for us to become an internet marketer. We will be focusing our attention to social media. We will be marketing an affiliate product which is close to our hearts and which helped us a lot in so many ways.
We’re targeting it to be launched next week. We’ll read more stuff for the meantime. Here’s the plan, we will be looking out for techniques on how to sell online through the use of social media. We’ll do the research until Friday. Saturday or Sunday in our Starbucks Experience (with Edel) we will discuss the steps we’ll do. Then on the first Monday of August, we will be creating materials for that one. Then as soon as we completed it, we’ll launch it.

Watch out for it. I’ll be updating you every step of the process.

For the mean time, here’s something worth sharing about social media. This sets of video helped me understand what social media is all about and how we can maximize it for our business.

See you on tomorrow’s post.

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Day 22 – Thinking Aloud!

I’m actually out of words today. Edel and I are thinking of new strategies on how to introduce financial literacy to companies. We’ve been doing this for so long and for the longest time we’ve been procrastinating and entertaining things that would divert us to not pursuing it.

Well today we’re back to planning stage and we’re doing this seriously.

We will be starting out a new website for financial literacy exclusive for companies.

We have a letter than will be distributed to companies.

We started building a list of companies and their HR managers.

We already have this statement “A real boss looks for solutions for the financial problem of his subordinates.”

We are currently studying different marketing techniques through Seth Godin’s books.

This weekend we’ll pull this off.

In case you have ideas to share, feel free to post your comments below.

Making things happen,

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

Day 21: The truth about lies and the best marketing strategy

Yesterday, I bought two books from National Bookstore in Festival Mall Alabang. I bought Seth Godin’s two classic marketing books Meatball Sundae and All Marketers are Liars Story Tellers. These books were suggested by my mentor Tony Hilado.

I immediately read the All Marketers are Liars Story Tellers book. From the first page, I could not stop myself reading. I agree with the concepts Seth Godin presented. The way he delivered it was fantastic.
I have found a lot of good marketing strategy from that book.

I can say is that we all live in a world of lies but a good marketer believed in that lie. Godin presented one glass wine maker as an example. The glass wine maker claimed that the taste of any wine is better using his glass as compared to an ordinary glass. Obviously it’s a lie but lot of wine critics proved that the taste is really different. The wine in his $20 glass tastes really good as compared to an ordinary $1 glass.

So what are we missing here?

The answer is belief.

I have a story to tell. I have been an affiliate of International Marketing Group. I am amazed by the concepts presented during the wealth academy series. Every after the wealth academy series I am fired up. But there’s a problem. I don’t believe that I can sell. That’s why I don’t have sales. My limiting factor is belief. My limiting factor is my belief that I can’t do it.

There’s a saying that goes like this: “If you think you can do it, you’re right. If you think you can’t do it, you’re still right.”

So what’s the point?

My point is our beliefs depend on our own definition of truth. There’s no universal definition of truth (and lie). Truths and lies are all products of our mind. What we believe as true may be considered as a lie to others.
Bottomline is trust in what you believe in; live by it, share it, tell your story and eventually it will sell. That’s the best marketing strategy. That’s why Seth tells us that All Marketers Are Story Tellers.

Gotta read!

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Day 20: The First Mastermind Meeting!

Just got home from the first ever mastermind meeting here in Luzon.

I’m so excited. I’m looking forward to our next meeting which will happen Tuesday next week.

I’m happy to present that we have a future millionaire who is very passionate in SEO. I call him SEO Master Paul Tibayan!

The mastermind meeting focuses on the things that we do on a regular basis: our work, our families, our hobbies, etc. Then, the topic was diverted to SEO. I didn’t know that Paul is a SEO Specialist. I really learned a lot from him.

I really thought what I’m doing for my blog has an effective and proper SEO already but guess what, through the stories earlier I realized I can do a lot more. I can attract more visitors. I can gain more readers. I can gain more friends and the most important thing is I can inspire and reach more people through my stories.

Also, while writing this blog post, I realized I’m part of a team of great internet marketers. We have SEO expert for search engines, we have viral marketing experts for social networking sites like facebook, twitter etc, we have great stories to tell, we have a wide array of products to sell thus all I can say is that we have a great online marketing team. We will be conquering the Philippines, then the whole world because of this elite marketing team.

The ideas are there. The marketing team is there. They are all set.

Nothing can go wrong right? Yes. The only thing we need to do is act. We should act. We should act to promote our products. We should act to learn more about our field of expertise. We should act based on the talents we have. We should act to share our ideas to others. We should act to make things happen.

I should act. What’s stopping me?

See you on tomorrow’s post.

The man who wants things done,

Monday, July 19, 2010

Day 19: Choice requires Action

This morning, I find it so hard to wake up. Well, the typical Monday blues is kicking on my system. I understand myself because I don’t have any exciting things to do at the office today. I’ll just compile and consolidate data, make some phone calls, do some checking at the system which we’re working and eat (the last two are one of the things I love doing at work). Ooops, I forgot. I checked the TVIExpress online and found out not so good stuffs about it. Well, I just recommend you to see for yourself and look for it in the internet.

Anyway, the 7 – 4 working hours went by. I did the things I need to do to finish my day at the office. At 4:15, I left.

I went straight to Edel’s house and shared my stories for the day. The things I did at work and the research I did about TVIExpress. She was surprised to hear about TVIExpress and still we are intrigued about the selling skills our friend has. We really need to see how she sells.

Anyway, after the story, I decided to read a portion of one minute millionaire to Edel. I read this portion to her.

Practice imagining yourself enjoying an abundant lifestyle. All great fortunes started in someone’s imagination. See yourself living in the home of your dreams, enjoying ideal relationships with friends and loved ones, contributing to the world through your own unique talents and abilities. Imagine the fortune you could create and the good it could do. Believe it and you will see it.

We stopped after reading the passage above.

She asked me, what do I imagine?

Honestly, I can’t imagine a thing. As of that moment, I can’t see myself having the fortune I want. I still believe that my psychological wallet could not contain that $1M. In short, the dream does not pressure me anything at all.

Then Edel noticed my silence. And she said that she understands. She told me that I haven’t made a choice that’s why I still can’t imagine my life in the future.

She’s right.

If I already chose a path, with my intellect, with my knowledge, with my skills I can go towards that path of greatness.

My excuse? I’m not living in the city. The opportunities here are not that much as compared to the metro area. People’s lifestyle here is very much different to the lifestyles in the metro. People here do not think financial freedom that much. They still have the employee mindset where in they work for a stable company who will provide them money every 15th and 30th day of the month.

Then it struck me. If my friend who lives here in Calamba bought shares in TVIExpress, then they are thinking of their financial freedom. This idea opened my eyes to the opportunity that I’m looking for. I debunked my own thoughts (that there’s minimal opportunity here as compared to the metro). There are a lot of people here in Calamba who wants to be financially free aside from us and my friend is a living proof.

So what’s left for me to do?

Choose from my inventory lists.

I should act based on what I choose. I choose to focused on this three things, Internet Marketing Workshop in Laguna, Wealth Academy in Laguna and Website creation projects.

Act, Act, Act!

Sunday, July 18, 2010

Day 18 : Business Opportunities

Instead of going to the Franchise Expo today, I decided to stay home and finish the office layout for my mom. It is actually a gift for me to talk to her about our family. It’s been a while since I talked to her about the relationships we have as a family. I’m happy that she opened up. I’m starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel. I’m excited for more tasks from my family.

Also, I met a high school friend today. She introduced me to a new business she’s venturing. It’s called TVIExpress. It is a travel agency site which offers cash rewards for members who invited two more into the business. Though I’m not yet sure if it’s a good investment or what, I need to do some research first.

During our discussion, she told me that our friend (the one introduced the business to her) sold 3 shares ($900) while doing some bank transactions. She was in the bank when a lady asked her about her work. She shared her business (TVIExpress) and the lady was inspired. Right there she brought 3 shares. I was amazed. I need to talk to her to see how she did it.

You see, that’s what I think lacking from my skills pool. If there’s a seminar about selling, marketing and if it is online, I would definitely grab it.

This led me to the idea of my own company. I will call it ePop which stands for elvin peria online projects. The mission of the company is to provide websites for businesses (which is I’m passionate in doing) and to help them market their own sites / ideas (which uses SEO, social promotions etc). Also, it offers online tutorial how to market and how to create sites and how we do business.

Aside from these stuffs, here are my additional learnings for the day (we watched two movies today to relax our mind).
  1. Real relationships are hard to find. If found, handle it with care. – Bulletproof
  2. We all have bad bone but it doesn’t mean we ought to use it. – Igor
  3. Neutrality opens us to more learnings. Bias leads us to stagnation.  
I will be having an exciting day tomorrow!

Saturday, July 17, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 17 - Important – Forever and Stuff-Temporary

I’ve re-read Cash In A Flash by Mark Victor Hansen and Robert G. Allen. Right now, I’m in the part of chapter 6 : Empowering questions particularly on the Important – Forever and Stuff – Temporary. The book gave an exercise by John Ortberg. The exercise goes like this:

It’s 4:00PM in the afternoon and you have decided to head home. There are two pads of Post-its on your days. One says “Important –Forever” and the other says “Stuff-Temporary.” As you leave your office, put a Post-it on anything you see-your computer, your desk, your secretary, the soda machine, the receptionist, your car, your house, your spouse, your kids-anything you see. Which Post-it do you put on what or whom? What is important and what is stuff?

Understanding these concepts will eventually help us to value relationships more as compare to the things we own. It will also help us to be grateful to the things and relationships we have even if we lost some stuffs.

Of course we tag our health as important as well so we should make sure that we have enough sleep. Work and any other money making activities are just stuff. Even God created the earth for six days. He can do it in one day but he chose not to.

I must follow that as well.

Gotta sleep! Until tomorrow. 


PS. In case you're near the Manila Area, the last day of the 2010 Franchise Expo will be tomorrow July 18. I want to attend the event but i choose not to. The reason? Important. More of this tomorrow. 

Friday, July 16, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 16 - Act!

Yesterday I just have said that I have a focused mind. My mind will be focusing on these three potential businesses: (1) Internet Marketing Workshop in Laguna, (2) International Marketing Group – Wealth Academy and (3) Online Clubs of Bo Sanchez.

Well, for the past couple of days, I’m proud to say that I’m doing my best to focus on these three tasks. So here’s my update.

Internet Marketing Workshop. We have found a venue and we already submitted the photos as well as our assessment of the place. We’ll be looking for additional venue while preparing for the detailed expense and projected income statement for the event. I received a not so good news from Jomar that Bo Sanchez may not be able to promote the event but the good news is instead of 1/3 profit split it will be 50-50 split. Also, the marketing efforts will be a sole responsibility of Jomar and me. This would definitely help me practice my marketing skills. Next steps will be the preparation of the detailed income and expense statement.

Wealth Academy. We have created a website to promote wealth academy. What is Wealth Academy? Wealth Academy is a program developed by IMG CEO Noel Arandilla designed to help Filipinos increase their financial literacy. The site aims to educate Filipinos even if they cannot go to the seminar to attend the Wealth Academy Series. We will be bringing the concepts in their email soon. We’re setting it up in such a way the information available in that site will become viral. We’re looking at 500 subscribers in 15 days after launch.

Online Clubs of Bo Sanchez. For the past couple of weeks, I’ve been posting Godwhispers in my facebook page. This time, I’m conquering offline friends as well. This is made possible with the use of my mobile phone. This has been already setup, so in case I found this inside my comfort zone, I’ll replace this with either Real Estate or Book writing. 

One more thing, I’m proud to say that the communication lines in my family are starting to improve. My mom started to open up her feelings for my father. I told her my side as well. We discussed some minor plans on how to improve our situation so we’ll see how things will work out.

Please pray for me. I’ll be very positive on this one.

Okay. It’s getting late.

See you tomorrow! It would be a great weekend!

Thursday, July 15, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 15 - A Focused Mind

Today, Edel and I embarked on a journey to Los Banos to take some photos of the possible venue for the internet marketing workshop. Before going to the venue, we had our dinner in Chowking.

She asked me the top three items I want to pursue as a source of income for the moment. I said, I want to earn online.

She said that my answer was vague. She asked again, what are the things I’ll be doing to have a source of income in the internet.

I answered. Jomar Hilario’s Internet Marketing Workshop, promote Financial Literacy through IMG and Truly Rich Club. These three are my low hanging fruits. Everytime someone will inquire in any of these three I’ll refer them immediately to my mentors (affiliate links).

So for the next couple of weeks, I’ll be focusing my attention to these three sources of income.
It would be a hard thing to do for a hare like me, but it is still possible. This is a challenge for me to focus on the things I want to happen.

By the way, as a result of our discussion in Chowking I will be spending most of my spare time doing these three. I’ll market and share them. Also, this is the first time I’ll attempt to make a viral information. Let’s see what will happen next.

See you on my next post tomorrow!

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 14 - Realization and the Formula for Success

Here’s another realization that helped me understands the scenario in our house. The situation in our house lacks openness.

Thank God Edel is there to help me realized the problem.

The problem is I tagged my father as a failure. Everything he does, everything he did and everything he will be doing is already a failure to me.

I realized this one when Edel and I had a practice negotiating session. I could not speak during that session because I was afraid to have an emotional breakdown. I was afraid to see my father and my mother having an emotional breakdown. This is the reason for most of the time we kept quiet and let silence speaks for us in the family. Silence brought us to our current situation right now.

In order to break the wall, I need to be open. I need to do something to let them share their thoughts.

So here’s my strategy, I’ll use the cash in flash equation for success. I’ll have a focused mind, a determined heart and a focused and determined team. My team consists of my family members. I know I can’t do it alone because for the longest time, I’m doing it my way. Now thank God I realized that I have a team. I have a team to help me get the things we want for our family.

One of the reasons why I got into this challenge is to have $1M for me and for my family at this time. Also, I wanted to have that openness in our family. I know this will come true.

By the way, I re-created this blog post since my internet connection is down yesterday. My PC crashed as well while saving this Day 14 entry.



I can do this!

eLviN

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 13 - Dreams Part 1

Here’s the first list of my dreams. This is the reason why I’m doing this 90 day challenge. Within the week, I’ll compile pictures, I’ll hire a graphic artist to arrange it and definitely have it framed!

Before I write this down on this journal let me share to you the dream guidelines suggested by Bo Sanchez. In making our dreams, it should be MAGIC – Measurable, Ambitious, Godly, Imaginative, and Complete.
So with these guidelines here are my short term dreams.

Have a happy family by having an open communication to each other starting August 2010. To have a family where every member can share stories of successes and failures freely. Every one listens when someone is sharing. Every issue is freely shared. Every idea is acknowledged. Every discussion leads to a better relationship. Everyone works to improve the current situation of the family.

Have a very exciting chapel wedding with my Edel here in Calamba on the 4th quarter of 2011. After the wedding we will be bringing in our family members to Hong Kong Disneyland for a wonderful experience. A month after, we will be having the greatest wedding reception for our friends and mentors.

Have my first one million dollars by end of September 2010 through the use of internet with the guidance of my mentor Tony Hilado. The business ideas I have starting today are worth millions of dollars. The first book about relationship will be released end August will get a thousand hits in one day. Those readers will get inspired by the story.

Edel and I will conquer the world by travelling around the world after the Internet Marketing Workshop scheduled September this year. Our adventure will start in Cebu to meet our mentor Tony Hilado and the Mastermind Group.

Tomorrow I’ll discuss business ideas. :D

Excited for tomorrow’s activities!

Monday, July 12, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 12 - Ideas

Today, I thought of a lot of ideas. The video of Jason Fried gave me a lot of fresh approaches to my existing business ideas.

First idea: How to become an MS Excel Expert. I admit. It’s been six months since I thought of this idea. I want to create an excel blog site that would teach readers how master their Microsoft Excel skills. But everytime I started it, it does not work. My mind is blocked. I thought of doing this, I thought of doing that. I thought of doing with the copywriter approach but it does not work either. I have lots of materials, I have lots of resources, I have lots of books but nothing. I don’t have an output.

It does not push me to do it. Why? I’m afraid. I’m an expert in 2003 but the latest version is 2007 (and 2010 is now available). Well, I’m starting to gain my confidence in 2007 but not compared to 2003. Give me more time, I’ll master it.

So that will be my new approach. I’ll create a journal on how to master excel 2007 the easiest way.

Second idea: Create a Laguna Bloggers Club or Laguna Online Marketer’s Club. In search for a Mastermind Group here in Laguna, I thought of starting it with my interest, which is blogging. I’m planning to setup a Laguna Bloggers Club. Well, the internet marketing workshop we’re scheduling is a good start.

Third idea: Sleep early. Well, this is part of my health awareness program. I’m doing it starting today so that tomorrow I’ll be refreshed to think of that million dollar idea. I’ll have more ideas and its action steps tomorrow.

By the way, the internet marketing workshop here in Laguna is still on. We looked for possible places here in Calamba but there’s none that passed our standards. We’ll be back in Los Banos to look for more.

Gotta sleep!

Sunday, July 11, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 11 - There Are No Accidents

This morning, Edel and I attended the Sunday Mass here in Calamba. The Gospel today is about the Good Samaritan. In his homily, the priest shared a story by Leo Tolstoy. It is about a king who wants to find the answer to what he considers the three most important questions in life.

What is the best time to do one thing?
Who are the most important people to work with?
What is the most important thing to do at all times?

Many educated men attempted to answer the king's questions, but they all came up with different answers. The king decided that he needed to ask a wise hermit in a nearby village. The hermit would only see common folk, however, so the king disguised himself as a peasant and left his guards behind to see the hermit. The hermit was digging flower beds when the king arrived.

The king asked his questions, but the hermit went on digging rather laboriously. The king offered to dig for him for a while.

After digging for some time, the king again asked his questions. Before the hermit could answer, a man emerged from the woods. He was bleeding from a terrible stomach wound. The king tended to him, and they stayed the night in the hermit's hut.

By the next day the wounded man was doing better, but was incredulous at the help he had received. The man confessed that he knew who the king was and that the king had executed his brother and seized his property. He had come to kill the king, but the guards wounded him in the stomach. The man pledged allegiance to the king, and he went on his way.

The king asked the hermit again for his answers, and the hermit responded that he had just had his questions answered.

The most important time is now. The present is the only time over which we have power.
The most important person is whomever you are with.
The most important thing is to do good to the person you are with.

Bottom line of this story is that there are no accidents. Everything happens for a reason. If currently you are confused over a particular situation or event, remember that it happened for a reason. That reason may be unclear as of the moment but I believe you’ll realize it sooner or later (at the right time).

If you stumbled upon a person that needs help (like the Good Samaritan and the story of the king), extend that helping hand. Who knows that might be the best friend for life you’ve been looking for.

Anyway, just a reminder, the most important time is now. The most important person is whomever you are with and the most important thing to do is to do good to the person you are with.

With this in mind, I will be opening my eyes all the time to learn from every situation I’m in. I’ll continuously look for people I need to help. I’ll continuously look for events that can help me grow. I think you should do it too.

Until my next post!

Saturday, July 10, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 10 - I'm a Hare

I’m currently reading the One Minute Millionaire book as suggested by my mentor Tony Hilado. There’s one material the authors suggested, it’s a personality survey called HOTS. In this survey, you’ll know your natural strengths. This is a critical step in creating our dream team. To know more about this, go to www.oneminutemillionaire.com or better yet, read the One Minute Millionaire book.

I took the test and here’s the answer.

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Your Answers Indicate A Hare Role

APPROACH: Conceptual/Spontaneous

DESCRIPTION: The Hare generates the concepts and ideas. They like to reframe the problem and look for solutions that may be unusual, unique, and/or outside the boundaries of traditional thought. Hares are good at exploring alternatives and perceiving the "big picture".
Hares want freedom from constraint, and when a rule exists they may break it. They may act impulsively, letting their feelings guide them. They derive satisfaction from the process of creating, discussing concepts and ideas, and overcoming obstacles.

When everything is in its place, the Hare may become restless, get impatient, and have a tendency to move from one subject to another.

CONTRIBUTION: Fresh, original concepts that go beyond the obvious, and are not constrained by fear of failure.

WEAKNESESS: Because the Hare enjoys generating ideas, they may move from one idea to another without stopping to evaluate the consequences.

If left alone to refine concepts, they will solve the problem within the problem within the problem, and eventually lose sight of the objective.

INSTINCT: Reframing problems to achieve breakthrough solutions, moving in new directions, examining possibilities without regard to risk.
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I agree. I’m a hare. I recalled my experience before while brainstorming in one of the Laguna Feast meetings (I’m part of the Laguna Feast Marketing Team). I have lots of ideas in my mind that I shared. I shared that we create a website, we create a facebook page, we create a twitter page, we give away free stuffs in the internet to promote Laguna Feast online, we create a promotional video using powerpoint, animoto and you tube’s share stories and a lot more. Yes, I created a website, a twitter page but the rest I tried doing it once but I’m not satisfied so I moved on and forgot about it. Until, my girlfriend reminded me that we should be doing what we promised to do.

If she does not remind me, I don’t know if I still do it.

Good thing I have a team.
 

I’m excited to expand my team.

eLviN

Friday, July 9, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 9 – Key Learnings for the week

Here are the things I learned this week.

What we focus on grows. I realized that I’m focusing my attention to the wrong things people are doing. I recognize their mistakes more often as compared to the right things that they do. That’s why most of the time, I feel frustrated, I lack patience, and blame them for doing the things they do (or the things they don’t do). I learned that I need to shift my mindset to focus on the things that are worthy of praise. I need to be grateful. I need to be patient and I need to be more understanding. In short, I need to focus on the positive trait of others as well as my positive responses.

Mentors are all around us. I learned this one from the One Minute Millionaire book. There are no accidents. God placed us on a particular place at a particular time in a group of certain individuals for us to learn something that is very useful for our success. This just shows that God is a generous God. He uses every moment of our life for us to learn something new. He is constantly sending angels for us to grow in the form of people, trials, books, events etc. In order to see them, we need to open our eyes and focus on the things we’ll learn on these situations.

God will give us everything we want. Just like any other parents, God wants us to succeed. God wants us to have the best things the universe has to offer. God wants us to enjoy the abundance of his universe. However, there’s one thing that hinders us from receiving this grace: ungratefulness. The moment we become ungrateful we will fail to recognize God’s blessings.

I’m excited for more blessings tomorrow!

Thursday, July 8, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 8 - What You Focus On Grows

I had a realization this morning. Tito Tony asked me the traits of my father, good and bad. As I was replying on his message I realized that my father is doing a good job in providing for the family. He works hard. He works everyday. He works on the scorching heat of the sun everyday. He is good in finding new clients for our business.  

On the other hand, he lacks financial management. He sleeps a lot (especially during midday) even if there are still some clients waiting for their stocks to come. He thinks negatively most of the time. He has this scarcity mentality that he is always short of capital and even fuel for our car.

My dad has all the traits listed above.

Here’s what I realized. What I focused on grows. I focus on my dad’s negative traits or bad habits. This gave me an impression that he’s not a good provider. This gave me a connotation that my dad has this negative mindset.

Well in fact, these things may be true but these traits are not 100% of him. There’s still goodness in him that’s why he works hard. I guess he’s just frustrated because he can’t do things with our approval. He lacks support from our end.

Tomorrow, I’ll change my mindset. Instead of focusing on the negative things, I’ll focus more on the positive things. We’ll wait and see.

I’ll definitely do this tomorrow.

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 7 – Establish Goals and Then Act

It’s 12:12AM. I just got home from a financial seminar with Rex Mendoza of Ayala Land. I learned a lot from his talk. It’s about what’s next for the Philippines.

Generally, according to him now is the time to invest. The market condition is expected to go up but it will be a rough ride.

Once again he suggested that we stick to the fundamentals with regards to investing. First we need to establish our goals and objective why we are doing this. Of course we want to have our dreams fulfilled so we need to plan. More importantly we need to act.

It’s getting late. I’ll be going to sleep. I’ll talk more about this tomorrow.

Getting ready for a super Thursday!

Tuesday, July 6, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 6 - Words Have Power

This is my first emotional post.

My 90-day journey to $1Million will not be complete if I haven’t fixed my relationship with my parents. For the longest time, this is the cross I’m carrying. I have a civil relationship with my father. I want that to be fixed while doing my journey towards the $1Million. $1Million will be useless if I could not share it to my family especially my father.

Well, you see, my father previously worked for a company for almost 20 years. He’s been an employee ever since I was born. He was a supervisor of that company. I could not imagine how much his monthly salary but I know it was more than enough our monthly household expenses. My mom does not worry about finances before.

Then my father retired. He got his retirement fund and invested it all in a business which after several years he could not keep intact. He started the business big and little by little he mismanaged his resources and now he can’t even support my siblings who are still studying. My father could not provide anymore. He cannot even provide enough capital to continue his business but he keeps on trying. He lacks discipline. He is negative towards his business. He is negative towards his life. Frustrated? I think so. But is he doing something to fix it? I don’t know.

My mom is always crying when my siblings are enrolling for the semester due to lack of funds.
This is the reason why I have this seed of anger in my heart for my father. I don’t like seeing my mother crying in front of me. I don’t like her worrying too much on tuition fees. I don’t like it when my father is oversleeping in the afternoon while customers are calling for a delivery.

Before, I thought that I have done enough. But for the last couple of days I realized that what I did is not enough. I need to create more drastic moves. The title of this post is the key to fix that relationship. I know the answers are within me. I know my words have power. It can either build or destroy relationships. So for the longest time, I did not create an open communication with my father. I just escape discussion by being silent most of the time. Well, it does not serve me well. So instead of being silent, I will talk more. I will talk with passion and positivity to build the relationship back. I can do this.

I’ll greet him good morning even if he does not respond.

I’ll tell him stories even if he does not want to listen.

I’ll listen to him more even if I don’t like the topic.

I’ll do my best to give him more positive mindset.

I can do this!

Monday, July 5, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 5 - Everything I need comes to me

This is a powerful incantation. Everything I need comes to me.

I experienced this incantation’s awesome power today.

First, I said to myself that I’ll be going out of the office at 4pm to accompany Edel to Los Banos to have their printer fixed. That thing happened even if I had an emergency call at 3:30PM with my boss (unexpectedly). At 3:44PM we haven’t talked about the issues regarding our service report which is the main purpose of our discussion. 3:45PM we started talking about it. I’m starting to feel nervous but I said this incantation on my mind. At 3:59PM, my boss told me that someone is calling her for an important meeting. Wow! Everything I need comes to me.

Second, we brought the printer to the shop then we looked for a computer shop for the Laguna Internet Marketing Workshop. Since we believe in the powerful incantation we got a computer shop with 33 powerful computers, a good comfort room (a requirement) and the best location at a very affordable price. Call that wow moment! We’re in a roll.

Third, we looked for a location where the mentor will be staying for the workshop. You won’t believe this but we found one. Less than 5 minute jeepney drive away from the computer shop at a very affordable price as well. Imagine that!

Wow. Definitely, this is one of the greatest days of my life so far! :D

Excited for the things that will happen tomorrow!

Sunday, July 4, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 4 - Realizations

I learned a valuable lesson today. Being wealthy does not mean having thousand of money in your investment funds. Being wealthy does not mean having multiple businesses that enables you to earn more than you could spend. Being wealthy does not mean you have thousands of great ideas that can be turned into pots of gold.

Having lots of money does not bring happiness all the time. Judas Iscariot received a huge sum of money but he regretted it. He was unhappy because he betrayed a friend. He was unhappy because of guilt he felt inside his heart.

Being wealthy means a balanced life. A time balanced for God, for family, for friends and colleagues, for yourself (health) and for your work (which gives you funds).

In order to achieve a wealthy life we need to work hard for it.

In order to have a great connection to our God, we need to pray unceasingly. We need to have that intimate connection with the Supreme Being. We need to be involved in work for his Kingdom to give Him more glory and praise.

In order to build happy relationships, we need to spend more time with them. We need to understand them. We need to be with them through successes and failures. We need to work hard to restore broken relationships.

In order to have good health, we need to exercise. We need to have enough sleep. We need to eat the right foods at the right quantity.

In order to have our financial freedom, we need to work hard and work smart.

In short, we need to work hard to attain the wealth we want. We need to go out of our unusual self to fix the problem. We need to step out of our comfort zone to solve the problem.

To summarize, I realized that our dreams are just outside our comfort zone waiting for us.

I’m excited to go outside my comfort zone.



Saturday, July 3, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 3 - Serendipity Walk + Business Ideas

Today, I had a serendipity walk/jog. I never had this jog in Calamba before. This morning was the first. Most of my jogging activities were in UP Los Banos.

Here are the things I realize. Most of the business establishments here in Calamba have the same products. I saw lots of bakeries, lots of flower shops, lots of funeral parlor, lots of art signs. I wonder if they still earn that much with that kind of competition. They need to stand out if they want to succeed. Maybe, they just created the same line of business when they noticed that their neighbor is doing well in that line of business. They have this line, “if they can do it I can do it as well”. Will they succeed in following other’s line of business? It is something to think about but I don’t want to focus on it.

Anyway, I had a great walk. I did some incantations which are suggested by Anthony Robbins in his Daily Magic Get the Edge and Personal Power II Audio Program. I prayed as well while jogging, it gave me a boost to witness God’s awesome creation.

Also, I had tons of great ideas for achieving my goal. First, I’ll be hosting an event here in Laguna. I will be conducting an Internet Marketing Workshop here in Laguna. I just prepared some teasers. Hopefully I’ll release them not later than Monday. Second idea is to have my girlfriend’s nephew to paint some greeting cards for events. I texted this idea to my mentor and to my surprise he said that this project is a pot of gold! Wow.

I guess that’s about it for this day. I had a fun day.

Excited for tomorrow’s activities!


 PS. I got my own copy of The One Minute Millionaire book. I’ll look for Success Principles tomorrow in Festival. 

Friday, July 2, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90 Days Challenge: Day 2 – Changed Mindset

I realized this today. We can learn a lot of stuffs from our day to day experiences. We can have business ideas in a snap. We can have new found friend in a snap. We can have new lead to our business ideas in a snap. We can have someone we can duplicate (because she’s so successful). We can really learn a lot.

How did I notice it?

I just opened my eyes and experienced the goodness of the day. Actually, it amazed me.

I received blessings after blessings. I got great ideas after great ideas. I have people that can help me and they even pointed out another people that can help the both of us.

This morning, I was thinking of building a website for my client. Of course, I remember Tito Tony’s advice to delegate tasks. So I checked out my yahoo messenger and noticed a friend (who built a website) online. I asked him if he is still doing websites. He said he loves to. So the chat went on. He discussed his previous projects so on and so forth. After the discussion, he recommended someone that can help us as well. That’s great right? The things I need come to me automatically.

Because of this experience, I’m opening my eyes for more blessings, business ideas, great people and memorable experiences.

I’m excited for my serendipity walk tomorrow! More ideas more blessings to come!

eLviN

Thursday, July 1, 2010

A Journey to The $1 Million in 90Days Challenge: Day 1 – Decide, Delegate, Duplicate.

Today, I’ll highlight three stories.



Decide! 
I started my day confused. Confused on what to do next? I said to my mentor (Tito Tony Hilado), that I officially start my challenge today July 1, 2010 but I’m not that excited. I still have some doubts on my mind. I still have that wall that needs to be smashed. I even feared of texting my mentor because I still don’t have a Sun number which I promised him that I’ll get yesterday.

Then, I did my daily routine. I prepare for work. While going to work, I’m still thinking if I’ll jump into this challenge or not.

Then, it struck me. What will I lose if I delay this challenge let’s say two to three days? This will give me ample time to talk to Tito Tony more and for me to have his suggested material.  

I told myself. Well, it will not be 90 days anymore. It will be 92 or 93 days. Why? I believe that one thing I’ll learn in this challenge is decision making. And at that moment, I’m deciding whether I will be pushing through or not. So what did I do? I immediately texted my mentor and confirmed him that I’ll start my challenge.

I jumped.

Whatever happens, I know it’s for my own good!

Well, after that I know I chose the right decision.

Delegate!
Tito Tony told me that everytime I have a business idea or anything, I should inform him. Well, I have this business idea ever since I learn internet marketing from Jomar Hilario. These ideas are the following:
  1. Create a website for clients
  2. Create a how to ebook about MS Excel
Here are my mentor’s comments.

Selling my own ‘how to’ ebook is a good thing. This can be done by creating a niche blog about the topic and I should build a reputation as an expert on that field. I need to grow the site’s popularity so it can reach the first page of Google when someone searches that topic.

As to the website creation, he advised me to accept jobs like that but I should be delegating it to someone else. The reason? I have a limited time (24 hours a day), and doing it myself would cost me to sleep less.
Delegating it to someone else would mean more time for me and for the things that I love doing.

Delegating right now is outside of my comfort zone. So this is a new task for me to learn. By the way, I thought of creating a site because I have a client right now who wants me to create a website for him. I still don’t know how to charge him but since I’m in the process of learning how to delegate a task, I asked for help from a friend. I’m currently hoping for his favorable response.

Duplicate!
My mentor asked me this question. What will I be doing (day in and day out) if I have P100Million in an investment earning more for me? He advised me to think really hard with this one. Top of mind, here is my list.
  1. Time with my family – travel, bonding moments
  2. Write more blog articles
  3. Create more websites for friends
  4. Serve the Music Ministry
  5. Do marketing for Laguna Feast
  6. Homeschool my future kid
  7. Help my future wife in building our school for kids/homeschool here in Laguna
I haven’t given him this whole list yet. I’ll think it over again. But I gave him #2 and #3 as an answer then ask this question. If I love doing one particular thing (creating websites/blogging) do I still need to delegate the task?

His answer is this. If you love doing something then make it a full time thing. Setup a company and then create a team (hire employees). This way, you can reach the whole world.

Wow. Nice answer. I totally agree with what he said. This is the path in making a dent in the universe.

Also, he added. Even Jesus needed 12 disciples to spread the word.

Jesus trained the 12 disciples to spread the word then Jesus conquered the world!

What a day!

Excited in waking up tomorrow!